MICKY IS MAKING A DOCUMENTARY
Hey friends, it’s me, Micky. I’m a Jersey native who decided at 59 to start life all over again — and now I’m making a documentary about it. It’s about joy, laughter, and learning to live out loud… with maybe a few tears along the way (but don’t worry, I promise a good party).
Making a documentary takes more than my charm and dad jokes — it takes support. I had a financial curveball recently (20 grand gone, poof), but I’m not stopping. This film is happening. That’s where you come in: every dollar, every share, every little bit helps. Think of it as buying a ticket to the best show of my life — and you get to help write it.
So join me — let’s laugh, cry, and make some movie magic together.
WHY I’M MAKING THIS FILM
I’m creating a documentary about my life (with a creative team): a trans man finding humor, peace, and purpose after decades of hiding. It’s about still choosing joy. Because at the end of the day, if we can’t laugh…what’s the point? Humor builds bridges. My hope is that
The Man I Was Born To Be helps people see the trans community with more humanity, laughter, and dignity. And beyond gender or identity, it’s a story for anyone who’s ever felt different, unloved, or like they had to start from scratch.
WHERE YOUR SUPPORT GOES
Your contributions will help fund:
- CAMERA & CREW – the folks who make me look good (or at least keep me in focus).
- SOUND EDITING – because no one wants to hear me crack jokes with bad audio.
- LOCATIONS & PRODUCTION – filming the places that shaped my journey, from Jersey streets to courtrooms to grocery aisles.
- POST PRODUCTION – stitching it all together with dignity and heart.
- COMMUNITY OUTREACH – podcasts, panels, and events where I’ve been showing up to share my journey and spark conversations.
EVERY DOLLAR gets us closer to amplifying this story in a way that honors both my journey — and the New Jersey community I’m proud to be part of.
WHAT HAPPENED (AND WHY I’M ASKING)
In December 2024, I signed a contract with a production company and paid $20,000 to a screenwriter who promised the world — and delivered nothing. I sold what I could, drained my accounts, and believed with my whole heart… only to be left holding an empty bag.
But here’s the thing: I’m still standing. I’m still laughing. And now, I’m building this project with a
new creative team — people who believe in elevating this story with dignity, humor, and heart. (and yes…all the paperwork is IN PLACE to get us going to the next stages — with GREAT NEW FOLKS!!!)
YOUR SUPPORT MEANS THE WORLD
Anything you can offer — big or small — is amazing. This project is about joy, resilience, and community, and I want you to feel part of it. Along the way I’ll be sharing updates, behind-the-scenes moments, and maybe even a few bloopers (because, well…I’m Micky).
Together, we can make The Man I Was Born To Be a reality — and share it with the world.
Thank you!!!
Micky Angelo Petrillo
Fort Lee, NJ